Regardless of the goal, big or small, we all tend to measure our successes with the ultimate outcome. Did we succeed or did we fail? Did we win or did we lose? So called experts tell us that if we achieve 80 to 85% of our goals we are usually on a pathway to success. They tell us if our goals are too difficult (reaching less than 80%), we may find ourselves feeling defeated at the end of the day. And, further if we are reaching all or nearly all of our goals it may be an indi